What keeps us from spiritual growth, and how can we reignite our passion for God?
When the Fire Grows Cold
Spiritual apathy is not always loud. It often creeps in quietly—masked by routine, dulled by distractions, or hidden beneath the weight of everyday responsibilities. Many men wake up one day to find that the fire that once burned brightly for God has cooled to a flicker. The Scriptures that once stirred conviction now feel distant. Prayer feels dry. Worship becomes a formality. And our walk with God becomes stagnant.
Romans 12:11 offers a powerful warning and encouragement:
“Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.”
This is not a passive suggestion—it is a charge. The original Greek for “keep” here implies an ongoing, intentional effort. Zeal must be guarded and nourished. Without intentional spiritual discipline, apathy is inevitable.
What Keeps Us from Spiritual Growth?
1. Distractions and Busyness
Modern life is filled with noise. Work, media, social obligations, and personal ambitions often crowd out time with God. Jesus warned, “the cares of this world… choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful” (Mark 4:19, NKJV). Even good things can become spiritual barriers when they replace our time with God.
2. Unconfessed Sin
Sin tolerated in the life of a believer numbs the conscience and distances us from the Holy Spirit. As Ellen G. White wrote:
“It is a law both of the intellectual and the spiritual nature that by beholding we become changed… It is a fatal mistake to suppose that the heart can remain pure while the eyes and the ears are open to that which is impure.”
— Messages to Young People, p. 271
When we harbor known sin, we silence conviction. Repentance is the only pathway back to intimacy with God.
3. Neglecting the Means of Grace
Bible study, prayer, and worship are not religious habits—they are lifelines. Spiritual apathy grows when we disconnect from these. Ellen White reminds us:
“Neglect of prayer leads to the weakening of the spiritual life.”
— Steps to Christ, p. 94
As Seventh-day Adventists, we believe in daily communion with God and weekly rest to reconnect with Him (Isaiah 58:13–14). When these are neglected, so is spiritual strength.
4. Isolation from Community
God designed us for fellowship (Hebrews 10:24–25). Men who walk alone in their spiritual journey often grow discouraged or disconnected. Spiritual growth thrives in community—through accountability, encouragement, and shared mission.
How Do We Reignite Our Passion for God?
1. Return to Your First Love
Revelation 2:4–5 is Jesus’ call to a once-passionate church: “You have forsaken the love you had at first… Repent and do the things you did at first.”
Think back to when you first came to Christ. What stirred your heart then? Begin again with those simple disciplines—Scripture reading, earnest prayer, and worship from the heart.
2. Feed on God’s Word
Jeremiah declared, “Your words were found, and I ate them, and Your word was to me the joy and rejoicing of my heart” (Jeremiah 15:16, NKJV).
A man of God cannot thrive without daily bread from the Word. Make Bible study personal and prayerful. Use tools like the SDA Bible Commentary, Spirit of Prophecy writings, or a Bible journal to go deeper.
3. Rekindle Your Prayer Life
Prayer is not about performance—it is about presence. If your prayer life has grown cold, start with honesty. God is not distant; He is waiting. Ellen White writes:
“Prayer is the breath of the soul. It is the secret of spiritual power.”
— Gospel Workers, p. 254
Begin with short, sincere prayers and build from there. Use ACTS (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication) as a framework to reignite meaningful prayer.
4. Serve Someone
Spiritual fire often returns when we begin to pour into others. Romans 12:11 links fervor to serving the Lord. Step into a ministry. Call a brother who is struggling. Volunteer. The more you give, the more God ignites your heart with purpose.
5. Observe the Sabbath with Purpose
The Sabbath is not just a break—it is a blessing. When honored in the spirit of Isaiah 58, the Sabbath becomes a delight and a day to reconnect deeply with God. Use Sabbath to worship, rest, read, reflect, and restore your soul.
6. Remove Spiritual Clutter
Fast from media, toxic relationships, or time-wasters that feed apathy. Replace them with what nourishes your soul. Consider the counsel of Philippians 4:8:
“Whatever is true… noble… pure… think about such things.”
Spiritual apathy is not the end—it is a wake-up call. God is not finished with you. Your passion may be faint, but it can be rekindled. If you feel numb, distant, or dry, know this: God still wants to walk with you. And He is ready to restore your joy, renew your strength, and revive your heart.
Ellen White wrote:
“Christ is waiting with longing desire for the manifestation of Himself in His church. When the character of Christ shall be perfectly reproduced in His people, then He will come…”
— Christ’s Object Lessons, p. 69
The time is now. Let us put off spiritual laziness and press toward Christ with renewed zeal. Let us be men who seek Him daily, serve Him faithfully, and reflect Him boldly.
“Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.”
— Romans 12:11